When Your Identity No Longer Fits... This Is Where You Begin

If you’ve outgrown your story, if the person you’ve been can’t carry what’s next, or if no therapy has ever reached what really feels broken—this is your moment.

Identity therapy with Don Gaconnet is not about finding who you are. It’s about dissolving the structure that keeps asking.

This is not self-discovery. This is identity termination, without collapse.
 

What Is Identity Therapy—And What Makes This Different?

Most therapy models try to integrate, reframe, or repair the identity.

I don’t.

I help you dismantle it.

Using the ICT framework (Identity Collapse Therapy)—a structural, neuroscience-backed system rooted in predictive processing and quantum cognition—we work at the architecture level of the self. That means no diagnosis, no storytelling loops, and no rebuilding of the false center.

Identity therapy here means:
 

• Ending identity crises by dissolving identity itself

• Resolving “who am I?” by removing the questioner

• Freeing you from the burden of performance, coherence, or approval

This is not talk therapy. It is field-aligned structural work.
 

Who This Is For

You may be ready for this work if you’re experiencing:
 

• A persistent or recent identity crisis

• A total disorientation of meaning, direction, or coherence

• A rupture from past belief systems, careers, communities, or labels

• Burnout from traditional therapy, coaching, or inner work

• The need to reset, not reflect

• A deep sense that something false is still living your life
   

This work is especially effective for:

• Neurodivergent individuals who reject narrative-based repair

• Post-therapy professionals, healers, or thinkers who know there's no more story left to fix

• Anyone who has felt "stuck between selves" and doesn’t want another label
   

The Science Behind This Approach

Most models define identity as an emotional or cognitive pattern. But Identity Collapse Therapy shows that identity is a recursive predictive model—a structure sustained by memory loops, trauma echoes, and performance scripting.

You’ll learn why:

• The brain’s Default Mode Network keeps recreating the self unless interrupted

• “Insight” can be a trap

• Diagnoses often reinforce identity fixation, not freedom

• Identity is not a trait—it’s a survival structure that can be collapsed and reseeded

This work is supported by findings in:

• Predictive Processing & Bayesian Brain Theory

• Quantum Cognition & Non-local Consciousness

• Neuroplasticity and DMN-to-TPN state shifts
   

What to Expect in Identity Therapy with Don

• There is no reflecting, processing, or integration here

• You will not be asked to “find yourself”

• I do not mirror you. I contain you. Until the self ends.

We use recursive mirror protocols, collapse language, and symbolic resonance structures to unwind identity fixation at the root.

You will exit the work without a fixed narrative, and with access to real-time, field-aligned functionality.
 

Client Reflections

“I didn’t find myself. I stopped needing one.”
— Former client, IR2 collapse

“The moment I stopped performing coherence, my body breathed for the first time in 20 years.”
— Identity Reset session participant
 

Session Options & Availability

• Remote or in-person sessions available

• Initial consult required before collapse protocol is offered

• Sessions are 90-minutes, custom-tailored to your collapse architecture
   

📩 To schedule a consult, email Don directly, or use the contact form.